Saturday, January 24, 2009

My new Job!

So we've moved onto Base (or Post as the Army calls it). It was a LONG weekend when we moved. By the time we got to Post on Monday the 12th, the sun was going down and we were exhausted. Luckily our new neighbors came out in force and we had the truck unloaded in two hours! Gotta love the tight-knit military community. In fact Dara has already been invited to a scrapbooking night with one of our neighbors. So the next day I went to check in at my job. I didn't expect to be there all day but I was. I also expected to have a day or two to unwind and unpack- no chance. I went right to work with in-processing (paperwork) and meeting the staff and command group. It's going to be a fun assignment. The people are all goofy, fun, knowledgeable, and helpful. I won't be teaching right away. I need to shadow all the classes, then go to an Instructor's Course which will teach me HOW to teach. Finally before I am certified as an instructor I need to pass three evaluations. It sounds like a lot of work, but if some of the people who have become instructor's can do it, I am sure I can too. So ultimately it should be end of May, beginning of June before I am a full fledged instructor.
As for the family- Brianna has started back at kindergarten here on base...I mean Post. It's all kindergarten kids and not multi-age like her class in VA. She gets to ride a bus even though she is less than a mile from the school. Once she is in First Grade she will be expected to walk. Riley hasn't started Pre-School yet but we anxiously await that time. Dara enjoys being a stay home mom again and is brainstorming ideas in painting, decorating etc.
Well that's all for now, see you again in a couple weeks (haha), seeing as how I have tons to say but no motivation when it comes down to it.

Friday, January 02, 2009

New Year, New Adventures

So now it is 2009. Who knows what comes next? I start a new job, move to a new house...we move to Ft Meade MD on the 12th. So I am ready I guess. It's funny when new work, job, home, whatever comes along you begin to daydream and think of what this new opportunity will bring. It never seems to live up to it I guess. Not saying it's been disappointing either. Pentagon was decent. It was definately interesting. Not too many people in the Air Force can say they have even met the Secretary of the Air Force, let alone two Secretary of Defenses. It's been a learning experience too. You learn who you can trust to do the job and how to handle those who can't do the job. I love Alexandria, VA- especially Old Town. DC is okay but it's too political, too touristy. It's funny to think the assignment I am about to go on will be my longest yet. Plus the house we will be in should be the longest one we've stayed in for quite awhile.
Since being married in 2001, Dara and I have moved to new households 7 times, about to make our 8th move in our 7 yrs married. Understandably we are sick of it, so we were quite happy to see what we will be moving into.
So now a new start in a new job with new adventures. Here's to 2009.

Friday, December 19, 2008

Movie Trailers

I don't know about you, but when I go to the movies I love to get their early enough to see the trailers. The sneak peak! Or in some cases these days- the whole reveal in under 3 minutes. What's up with that? Shouldn't you want to 'tease' the audience into going? I mean if you give away the entire plot and all the good points in the movie why go? For instance "The Breakup" with Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Aniston- yes I know that came out awhile- all the hilarious bits were in the trailer. Or "What happens in Vegas" even in the trailer it shows them finally winding up together (now granted that's the formula for romantic comedies but it doesn't neccessarily need to be, but if you show me in the trailer there's no room for wondering). I just happened to see a trailer for a movie called "Obsession" this morning. It stars Beyonce and Ali Larter (Heroes). The trailer WAS the movie. It too revealed the ending fight between the two ladies and left one second to guess what happens. Of course if you saw "Fatal Attraction" just put in Ali for Glenn Close and Beyonce for Michael Douglas' wife and there's your movie.
Another movie coming out with Dustin Hoffman and Emma Thompson looks really good, and I am sure will have some witty dialogue and cute moments but the trailer tells you the entire movie!! (It's called Last Chance Harvey and if you haven't seen the trailer go see the movie).
One trailer that WAS doing well in not giving too much away is Seven Pounds (will smith). It makes you wonder what he did wrong to need to change these peoples' lives. UNfortunately I saw a 3rd cut trailer which, to me, looks like it shows what he did- thereby ruining THAT mystery moment- but I am still interested in the movie.
So comedies give away the good jokes, what about action trailers? You guessed it, the best action sequences. Or mysterious thrillers- the face of the beast, killer, etc.
I guess the thinking of the studio suits is that by showing all the cool stuff it will entice audiences. Sure it may and will but then watch how fast the audience drops off the next weekend because they tell everyone all the good stuff was in the trailer.
And another thing...trailer? So shouldn't it be at the end of the movie? I think at one time it was. Anyway be weary of the trailers!!!

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Some Past Notes from Facebook

These were posted on Facebook in case you missed it:
Our Economy-
It's bad people....so bad it's like a deer in headlights. I don't know what to do but hold on for the ride. Funny how one of our founding forefathers would know how bad and evil this bailout is going to be: I believe that banking institutions are more dangerous to our liberties than standing armies. If the American people ever allow private banks to control the issue of their currency, first by inflation, then by deflation, the banks and corporations that will grow up around [the banks] will deprive the people of all property until their children wake-up homeless on the continent their fathers conquered. The issuing power should be taken from the banks and restored to the people, to whom it properly belongs. —Thomas Jefferson, 1802And on top of that hiden within the big Bailout proposition under Section 8 (ironic if you think about what section 8 housing is) it states:Decisions by the Secretary pursuant to the authority of this Act are non-reviewable and committed to agency discretion, and may not be reviewed by any court of law or any administrative agencyMeaning you can't fight it, no one can stand up to it---eat it America and like it!!As Ron Paul says: "you can't solve the problem of inflation, which is the creation of money and credit out of thin air, by more money and credit out of thin air, and not changing policy. We have to change basic policy."It's gonna get a whole lot worse before it even begins to be better. Now realize MSM (mainstream media) will spin this positive because they are owned by the same bigwigs who control our banks and government- but the really smart, intuitive American will know. How long before we start to see Americans wake up- of course people like me who try to convince others are ignorantly placed in the conspiracy theorist category. Don't come crying to me when it all goes to hell. I'll say- I told you so.

What is it about Obama?
I gotta say two years ago when this young black man stepped up and announced his candidacy for President i thought, okay he's youthful, speaks well, appears confident. He just might win. Soon though my interest subsided and I began to see something different.You know it's somewhat scary to see the hysteria surrounding him. It's unprecedented. Women sream and faint, throngs chant his name like a mantra. Some even throw out the shallow, "I love you!" I don't think any other presidential candidate or President himself had such a mass reaction. Sure we had the 'I like Ike" buttons, and "Win one for the Gipper" but I'm sure Washington, Jefferson, Reagan, FDR et al, didn't have women screaming adorations at him. I mean some people have even put him in paintings as the Messiah. I saw one of those Vigil candles like this. All these other past presidents have had achievements to go along with their praises. This Senator from Illinois has had no service to our country, never introduced a life changing bill, all he is are words. Just words stirring up adoration.When cheering in support of someone turns to adoration something is wrong. almost cult like. Someone said something to the effect of, "The cult of personality is often created when the general population is discontent." Well duh! America is fed up of 8 years of Republican controlled cronyism. Anything short of a penguin would've been cheered for. A great orator can take this discontent and through skillful words become that society's change- that NEW HOPE! Too often the disenfranchised (to throw in a nice political word) don't want to take the time to examine the agent of change, they just know it's different. Well in some cases change is NOT always good. (But by this statement I am not saying we should have a Bush crony in the white house either)Take the Iranians in the late 70s. They were tire of the regime of the shah. So they embraced Kohmeini, not because they wanted an Islamic state, but because he represented change. Unfortunately they found his words of change were not for the better. But they gorged themselves on his words, took in all he had to say without critical examination. They WANTED to believe, so they closed out all the facts that were there to examine and just became the Ostrich who was content to stick his head in the sand. So with that we know how that CHANGE effected those people.Some people in our country go so far as to compare Obama to Hitler. And I can see that ONLY, and I stress ONLY before you all have heart attacks or send hate mail. I ONLY SEE THAT IN THE FACT THAT ATROCITIES ASIDE HITLER WAS A GREAT ORATOR- he knew how to stir the general populace, to pull on those heartstrings. (I do not believe Obama is a mass murdering sociopath just a great orator.)Obama also likes to create a cult of personality around himself.He can create a cult of Personality by associating himself with the idea of change. He convinces everyone that things are terrible and a drastic change is needed. He then casts himself as the only person who can deliver this revolutionary transformation that everyone is waiting for. He portrays himself as a benevolent guide; the only one who cares about people and their needs and can pull them out of their alleged misery. In reality, they have no clue about how to address the problem - have no experience, no track record. But they are convincing because they are self assured. A cult of personality is excessive adulation, admiration and exaltation of a charismatic leader, often with unproven merits or achievements. It is similar to hero worship except that it is created specifically for political leaders. So we will see by next year or 2010 at most if Obama can walk the talk that he is so well at speaking.


So these should fill my rant and rave quota for a day or two. Let's wait and see what tomorrow brings.

I'm BACK!!!

Look at that last post- over TWO YEARS AGO. So we're gonna try this again. I think I stopped just because I lost the zeal and felt I had no time to post. So I am gonna try again. So far for now. I may find the energy to post somethign other than this again today. We'll see.

Wednesday, August 31, 2005

Is there anyone out...in here?

Okay I left the blog empty for a long time because I wasn't getting any kind of response from anyone. Well my good friend, Rachel told me she still checks so if for no one else but her, I'll keep posts. So as you all know (or should) Riley John Bender is here. Almost three weeks already...big sister Brianna is just totally in love and helps out as much as she can. Dara is doing well, she's a real estate agents assistant and enjoys it. Brianna goes to Mother's Day Out Pre-School every Tue/Thur. The Air Force is good, living on base is really nice. We've already saved plenty of gas money not to mention not having to pay utilities. Well all for now. Gotta a beautiful Baby Boy to tend to.

Saturday, June 04, 2005

It's been a LONG while...

So i haven't been real good at keeping things up to date on here. Where have I been the last month and a half...sinking into a depression about where my life isn't going right now. I'm totally envious of my brother off in LA at the Film School I wanted to go to years ago but couldn't, I'm busy working real hard at base cause a whole bunch of people have left, are leaving, will leave, and I'm picking up the slack; and we're getting ready to move onto base (thank God, it's about time). Plus I've just started an exercise program that yes I bought from an infomercial on TV. I'll let you know if it's worth the time and money. It's not that I can't do it on my own, it's that i don't know what to do and how to do it. This way I pop in the DVD and follow the various 30-40 minute workout programs. And let me tell you by the end of them I am wiped out. But after a cool shower I feel toally refreshed and ready to take on the day. Dara is 31 weeks now, and ready for this boy to come out. She's due August 4th but we figure (hope) it will be mid to end July. Brianna is becoming more and more sassy, much to our chagrin (sp) but she is still one of the most talkative, smartest, creative kids we know.
Well so long for now.

Wednesday, April 13, 2005

It's been awhile

So i don't know how many of you actually go out and read my blog or know when I've posted these, but it's definately been awhile. It's hot here in SA! Mid April and Mid 80s. Work is going to be no fun this summer. We have three people retiring, one seperating, three deploying, and four leaving the station. We're gonna be needing bodies fast, because summer is our busiest time.
Dara is about 24 weeks now and Baby boy Bender is a mover and shaker. I think he's gonna be a soccer player or something. Brianna is potty trained and has been for about two weeks now i think with only two accidents. Dara is holding up even though her LA Weight Loss job is becoming a pain and too much for her pregnant body to handle but she has something else waiting in the wings that hopefully will help. We're both anxious to get onto base and have her home to save money (she'll be working from home too) Anyway I promise to update this more often.


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